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Peaks and Valleys: Where Mindset Is Forged

October 24, 20252 min read

Peaks and Valleys: Where Mindset Is Forged

Life isn’t lived only on the peaks.

Sure, those mountaintop moments feel incredible with the victories, the wins, the clarity. When everything aligns, it’s easy to feel strong, confident, and unstoppable. Anyone can survive during the peak times. In fact, most people thrive there.Most importantly, the view is much better up in the clouds.

But here’s the truth: the real growth doesn’t happen up top. It happens in the valleys.If you are taking notes, you can learn a lot when you make your descent to the valley.The descent to the valley, does not have to be life ending crash.If your head is not too far up in the clouds, it can be a controlled fall.

When you find yourself in a valley, a season of uncertainty, setback, or struggle, that’s where your faith in yourself gets activated.This is a time to actually start believing in yourself. It starts with having a conversation with yourself through self-talk and affirmation. It is this point where you find that words matter. It is not just if you talk to yourself, but it is “how” you talk to yourself.Self-positive talk can be your titanium shield to uncertainty and external negative feedback.

Down there, you discover who you are and what you are made of. You shed doubt, excuses, and hesitation. In fact, you may find out that you were that person you have wanted be the entire time. It just had to be revealed to you. The valley becomes your training ground for the climb ahead.The depths of a valley is where you develop grit and resiliency.This is the location where nobody can see what you are doing.When you emerge, you will be different.

Then comes the ascent, the climb back to the peak. This is where mindset gets applied into action. Every step forward is an act of applying what you’ve learned. Each foothold represents your courage and discipline. It the quiet confidence that was forged in the dark.

It’s during the climb that you don’t just reach your goals, you outgrow them. You become bigger, stronger, and more indestructible than the vision you once thought was your limit.

That’s the beauty of the journey. The peaks may give you perspective, but the valleys give you time to develop yourself. So, when you find yourself down low, don’t despair. Look around, dig in, and trust the process.

Because the valley isn’t where you go to quit!

It’s where you learn, believe, and become.

Real estate investor

Steven D. Unruh

Real estate investor

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