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Stretch Your Hip, Not Your Wallet

June 09, 20253 min read

Stretch Your Hip, Not Your Wallet: How Fitness Mirrors Financial Freedom

Last week, I thought I pulled my hamstring. Every time I went out for a run, I’d get a sharp pain that made me stop dead in my tracks. But when I tested my hamstring strength, everything checked out. That’s when I discovered the real culprit: my opposing hip was too tight.

It wasn’t the hamstring itself!  The real culprit was a lack of mobility somewhere else that caused the problem. If I had stretched properly, I could’ve avoided the setback altogether.  By following the kinetic chain, I located the true suspect of my pain.  Instead, I just kept looking for a cure of the symptom (Resting, Ice, Compression….) and hoping that it would go away.  What is frustrating is that I know better.

That small oversight in my physical preparation caused a chain reaction. It held me back from progressing in my training, slowed my pace, and ultimately delayed the goals I had for performance. And that got me thinking… isn’t this exactly how most people approach their finances?

Fitness and Finances: Both Require Discipline and Delayed Gratification

We all know how to get in shape: eat clean, move more, sleep better. And yet, many people ignore the boring stuff like stretching, warming up, or planning ahead. Then when something goes wrong, we’re surprised.

The same goes for money. Everyone knows the basics of building wealth: spend less than you earn, invest the difference, and give it time to grow.  (If you need a lesson here is a good book:  The Richest Man in Babylon)  But just like stretching, the fundamentals are easy to ignore. Instead, we swipe the card on Amazon, swing by Starbucks for the third time this week, or justify a “treat yourself” expense that ends up costing more than just dollars.  We spend to make ourselves feel good and regret it in the long run.  Stop this cycle of financial regret!

We tell ourselves, “It’s just one latte,” or “I deserve this after a long week.” But over time, those micro-decisions become financial scar tissue that quietly limits our potential, slowing our progress, and pushing our dreams of financial freedom just out of reach.  After years of poor decision and lack of discipline, we all watch as someone else lives their dream.

It’s Not About Deprivation, It’s About Alignment

I wasn’t sidelined by some catastrophic injury; I was held back by imbalance. Financially, it’s the same. It’s not one big bad decision that ruins our wealth-building journey. It’s the little imbalances like impromptu spending, avoiding the discomfort of budgeting, failing to invest in our future that keep us stuck.

You don’t have to cut out every joy in life. I’m not saying to never have Starbucks again. I’m saying we need to ask: Is this purchase aligned with my long-term goal? If the answer is no, maybe it's time for a different decision.

Because if you want to be financially free, you have to stretch in the right direction. You have to stay flexible, plan, and sometimes deal with the discomfort now so you can run freely later.  Physically and financially.

Final Thought

Whether it’s your hamstring or your bank account, what you ignore will eventually limit your performance.

So take a moment to stretch your hips and your habits. Realign your actions with your goals. Because the dream life you want to live—whether that’s crossing the finish line or achieving financial independence—starts with a few intentional decisions made every day.

Real estate investor

Steven D. Unruh

Real estate investor

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