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National Break-Up Day: End Your Toxic Relationship with Debt and Bad Habits

February 21, 20253 min read

National Break Up Day: Time to End Your Toxic Relationship with Debt and Bad Habits

Valentine’s Day gets all the attention, but what about National Break Up Day? While some may use it as an excuse to part ways with a bad relationship, we’re taking a different approach—breaking up with debt, bad spending habits, and financial struggles that have been holding you back.

If you’re ready to create a wealthier, healthier, and happier life in 2025, this is your sign to walk away from financial stress and step into a brighter future. Let's use the S.W.A.N. Method (Sleep Well At Night) to start a better life.

Breaking Up with Debt: Time to Move On

Debt is like a toxic relationship—it drains your energy, keeps you up at night, and limits your opportunities. But just like any bad relationship, you can make the decision to move on. Here’s how:

  • Assess the Damage: Take an honest look at your debts. List out credit cards, loans, and other liabilities to understand where you stand.

  • Create a Payoff Plan: Whether it’s the snowball method (smallest debts first) or the avalanche method (highest interest rates first), having a strategy is key.

  • Cut the Cord on Bad Spending Habits: Unsubscribe from services you don’t use, eliminate impulse spending, and start budgeting with intention.

  • Boost Your Income: Consider a side hustle, passive income streams, or real estate investment to accelerate your debt payoff.

Saying Goodbye to Renting and Hello to Homeownership

If you’ve been stuck in the cycle of renting, it’s time to break up with being a tenant and step into homeownership. Imagine living in a place where every payment builds equity in your future, not your landlord’s.

  • Check Your Financial Readiness: Assess your credit score, savings, and debt-to-income ratio to see where you stand.

  • Get Pre-Approved: Talk to a mortgage lender to understand what you qualify for and what steps you need to take to improve your chances.

  • Find the Right Real Estate Strategy: Whether it’s buying your dream home or starting with an investment property, work with an expert to make smart moves.

  • Leverage Real Estate to Build Wealth: Owning property can create financial security, tax advantages, and long-term passive income.

Cutting Ties with Unhealthy Habits

Being financially free isn’t just about money—it’s also about health and longevity. What’s the point of wealth if you’re too burnt out or unhealthy to enjoy it?

  • Ditch the Poor Diet & Lack of Exercise: Start small—walk daily, lift weights, or join a community that keeps you accountable.

  • Prioritize Mental and Financial Health Together: Stress from debt can take a toll on your well-being. As you clean up your finances, you’ll notice a shift in your mental clarity and confidence.

  • Join a Supportive Community: Whether it’s a fitness group, real estate mastermind, or an accountability partner, surrounding yourself with like-minded people makes a difference.

2025: The Year of Your Best Life

Breaking up isn’t always easy, but it’s necessary when something is holding you back. By ending your relationship with bad financial habits, renting instead of owning, and an unhealthy lifestyle, you set yourself up for a future filled with wealth, health, and freedom.

So, as National Break Up Day approaches, ask yourself: What do I need to break up with to create my best life? The choice is yours, and your future self will thank you.

Are you ready to make the break? Let’s talk about your plan for 2025 and how to make your dreams a reality!

Real estate investor

Steven D. Unruh

Real estate investor

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